Guidelines for Married Men

Guidelines for Married Men

 Staying Faithful and Trustworthy

1. *Limit Close Relationships*: Avoid forming close bonds with any woman, whether single or married, including secretaries, colleagues, or friends' wives.

2. *Emotional Attachment*: Do not get emotionally attached to any woman other than your legally married wife.

3. *Social Media Boundaries*: Refrain from celebrating any woman publicly, except for your wife, mother, and daughter, to avoid sending mixed signals.

4. *Caution with Offers*: Remember that a woman who easily offers herself may do so to others and could cause trouble later.

5. *Maintain Professionalism*: Do not take advantage of women who are in subordinate positions; uphold trust and integrity.

6. *Financial Assistance*: Seek your wife’s consent before providing financial help to any woman to avoid future complications.

7. *Avoid Isolation*: Do not meet women in secluded areas or private settings.

8. *Control Lust*: Resist the urge to lust after other women; your wife has everything you need.

9. *Be Wary of Food Gifts*: Caution is advised when accepting food from women who frequently offer it.

10. *Wear Your Wedding Ring*: Always display your commitment by wearing your wedding ring.

11. *Indecent Dressing*: Do not tolerate inappropriate attire from those around you.

12. *Reject Advances*: Firmly but calmly rebuke any sexual advances from women.

13. *Avoid Inappropriate Discussions*: Stay away from suggestive conversations with women.

14. *Be Transparent*: Share everything with your wife; secrecy can lead to mistrust.

15. *Value Your Wife*: Treat your wife as your best friend and proudly display her image.

16. *Celebrate Your Marriage*: Make a big deal out of your wife’s birthday and anniversaries on social media.

17. *Declare Your Status*: Make sure others know that you are married.

18. *Limit Affectionate Language*: Use "I love you" only for your wife and daughter to avoid misunderstandings.

19. *Talk About Your Wife*: Regularly mention your wife in conversations to deter unwanted attention.

20. *Stay Positive*: Always speak positively about your wife and avoid negative comments about other women.

21. *Seek Help if Needed*: If you’re unhappy in your marriage, don’t confide in other women; seek professional counseling instead.

22. *Cut Ties with Exes*: End all communication with former partners to protect your marriage.

23. *Show Love Publicly*: Express your love for your wife openly.

24. *Report Inappropriate Behavior*: Inform your wife about any woman who gets too close.

25. *Be Friendly but Disciplined*: Be kind to female colleagues and neighbors, but maintain boundaries.

26. *Weigh Consequences*: Remember that fleeting pleasure can have lasting repercussions.

27. *Avoid Night Parties*: Stay away from events that promote immorality if you want to remain faithful.

28. *Steer Clear of Alcohol*: Alcohol can impair judgment and lead to poor decisions.

29. *Be Aware of STDs*: Protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases through fidelity.

30. *Condoms Aren't Foolproof*: Relying on condoms is not a substitute for good conduct.

31. *Honor Your Vows*: Remember the promises made on your wedding day.

32. *No Nightclubs*: Avoid establishments that encourage infidelity.

33. *No Flirty Jokes*: Don’t make suggestive jokes with women.

34. *Limit Physical Contact*: Avoid casual hugs or touching; save affection for your wife.

35. *No Shoulder Touching*: Touching a woman’s shoulder can convey inappropriate intimacy.

36. *Avoid Private Meals*: Don’t have private meals with women; it can lead to developing feelings.

37. *No Private Car Rides*: Avoid giving rides to women alone; it can create intimacy.

38. *No Secret Conversations*: Avoid secretive or flirty chats with women.

39. *No Private Meetings*: Ensure your wife is aware of all meetings with women.

40. *Avoid Pornography*: Understand that pornography does not fulfill real emotional needs.