Paternity fraud is one of the deepest wounds a man can suffer. You raise children for fifteen or twenty years, you pay school fees, you carry them in sickness, and you boast about them everywhere. Then one day, through a small test or an argument, you discover that none of them is yours. That is not just betrayal; it is spiritual poison

‎Paternity fraud is one of the deepest wounds a man can suffer. You raise children for fifteen or twenty years, you pay school fees, you carry them in sickness, and you boast about them everywhere. Then one day, through a small test or an argument, you discover that none of them is yours. That is not just betrayal; it is spiritual poison. 
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‎People laugh and say you are not the first. They forget the emotional and mental damage. I call it abomination because it breaks trust at the root. Women must be empowered, yes, but empowerment is not licence to do evil. If a child is not your husband’s child, say the truth from day one. It is better to face shame early than destroy a whole life later. 
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‎And finally, know who you are with, ask questions, know her family because most cases like this can be traced to family. If her mother or any of her siblings did something like that, it's hard not to see your woman follow the same pattern. So my brother you need to be careful.
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‎- Kanayo O. Kanayo