Young lady, you have no business being “friends” with a married man. Especially if you’re single. That road doesn’t end well. Respect people’s homes and stop pretending friendship doesn’t cross lines. It always does.

Young lady, you have no business being “friends” with a married man. Especially if you’re single. That road doesn’t end well. Respect people’s homes and stop pretending friendship doesn’t cross lines. It always does.

There are plenty single men outside. Go and find your own. Why are you hovering around someone else’s husband like there’s a shortage? That is desperation, not connection.

Face your lane. Match your energy with someone available. Don’t hide under friendship and later cry when drama starts. If you wouldn’t like it done to you tomorrow, don’t do it to another woman today. Boundaries are not wickedness, they are wisdom.

- Rita Dominic